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Krista Drechsel's avatar

Liz, this is breathtaking! This is changing the way I see myself and God. Thank you friend. Just so stunning.

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

Thank you, Krista. That means so much!

Amy Bornman's avatar

😭 I love this so much

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

Thank you, Amy! I've been reading your book Broken Waters this past week, and it has been deeply moving. I am so glad these words met you as yours have met me.

Amy Bornman's avatar

😭😭😭 yes!!

Beth Cole's avatar

Grateful this essay appeared in my feed this morning. Thank you ❤️

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

I'm so glad they found you! Thanks for sharing!

Liv Holloway's avatar

Loooove this.

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

Thanks so much, Liv!

Cheryl Wilding's avatar

As a fellow perimenopausal woman, thank you!

Thank you for reminding me that the belly and flobbitty arms are still in the image of God and show us something of God. A soft curvy God in a world of hard edges, what a beautiful picture you have painted.

May God grant you acceptance of your beautiful body. x

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

Oh, I love this, Cheryl! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and also for the word "flobbitty" :) May God grant us all that same acceptance. In it with you. xo!

Sara-Kay Mooney's avatar

Thank you for this!

Bekah Stewart's avatar

This is beautiful! Thank you.

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

So glad these words resonated!

Jillian Schuller's avatar

Thank you for this, just thank you ❤️

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

You are so very welcome. I'm so grateful these words met you.

Stephanie Duncan Smith's avatar

Really beautiful. Keep writing ☺️

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

Thank you!! (What an honor receiving this comment from a writer I admire so much!)

Caiti Radjewski's avatar

Beautiful.

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

Alyssa Silvester's avatar

Stunning, brought me to tears.

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

I’m so glad these words met you. Thanks for your kind comment ❤️.

Christina Elisha's avatar

Tearing up as I sit in my garden contemplating this very thing!! How beautiful.

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

What a lovely setting for these thoughts! May the softness of God find you there!

Sarah K. Butterfield's avatar

This is the sigh of relief we all needed! I'm adding a soft belly to my ever-changing, ever-evolving mental picture of God.

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

Aww, I love this so much!

Laura Kelly Fanucci's avatar

Needed these words like WATER. The past few months I've inexplicably started gaining weight and I am really struggling to make peace with my changing body. Yes, I need to get the medical answers to why (stupid cancer) but on the spiritual level I feel myself being asked once again to learn to love my physical body for its innate goodness, no matter what my clothes or mirror or scale say. I loved this invitation to meditate on the roundness of God!

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

Oh, Laura - "to love my physical body for its innate goodness" - the simplest ask that's the most difficult to do! In it with you!

Shelly Shepherd's avatar

Inviting the strength of the Feminine Spirit to live in the crevices of the ordinary and mundane… and then in Her wisdom, like your words that pour here, expand the beauty of our beloved bodies as soft, deep and encompassing tenderness… first to ourselves and then to others…

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

Yes! The outflowing of compassion that can happen when we practice self-compassion and acceptance, stemming from the love of God. Love this!

Anni Ponder's avatar

LIZ! This is gorgeous. I so appreciate the way you articulate this—softly, gently, unapologetically, slowly, with the care a mother swaddles her newborn. May I link this essay to my online collection of resources about God’s feminine nature? My friend Kim and I’ve been compiling as many different sources as I can find on the topic. I’d love to add yours! You can view it at findingmamagod.com.

Again, thank you for this. I’ll be thinking all day about your observations about soft edges. Perhaps this is why last week I picked up a beautiful curved piece of driftwood at our campsite and took it home.

Also, thank you for setting this essay in the context of the horror of the day. I was having a conversation yesterday about how Genesis was likely written during another time of horror—and how the Spirit responded by sharing images of Herself brooding and birthing new life, even in the midst of the chaos and despair of exile. It made me want to keep talking about what She is birthing right now—and how we can help midwife the process. Like Valarie Kaur teaches, now is the time to breathe and push. Your beautiful essay is just that.

Also Theology of the Womb arrived in my home yesterday. 💖

Elizabeth Berget's avatar

Wow - so much to love here. Your comparison of this essay to a gentle swaddle is so meaningful to me. I've been writing it so slowly, since April, and have written and cut nearly 76000 additional words. Thank you for your thoughtful and kind words!

I'd be honored to have this essay added to the resources at Finding Mama God.

And yes, now is the time to breathe and push. Life cannot remain in darkness. We are birthing a new world of light in this present moment. (let's talk Theology of the Womb soon, xo!)

Anni Ponder's avatar

You’re ON! I look forward to the discussion on TotW and much more.

How lovely to hear of the tender way you’ve been nurturing this essay into being—not at all surprising, giving its effect on me.

🕊️